Sunday, 8 May 2011

Live Life Full


Live each day. Could be your last. Or theirs.
Thought about that today.
Wanted to dial in the roady. Momma’s day first. Breaky. Early. Then number one son.
A scroll to the northern tip of town. Uncle Len. Can’t rush. He’s  87.
Back to town. The Uganda peeps.
What if it were the last time?
So much self-absorption. All around. It’s the world today.
I respect my elders. Making time.
The day rounded with a shout out from my son.
A movie mum?
Yup.
Ya never know what tomorrow will bring.
Gotta take it.
While you can.
To live your life full.

Thursday, 5 May 2011

Dad’s Day


"On the other hand – she wore a glove."
One-liners he was good at.
With his walking stick (didn’t like anyone calling it a cane) he’d announce as he’d enter the barbershop with his stick raised pausing at the door frame, “This is a stick up!”
He’d amble in closer and look directly into the eyes of the guy cutting the hair and throw another one at him.
“Looks like you got rid of the lice!”
That was dad.
Every year on May 5 at 5:05 p.m. we gather together and raise a glass.
My younger brother and I were with him when he passed. He left with a smile on his face. At the cocktail hour of course.
Even though it’s been six years I remember it like yesterday.
The Priest at the nursing home where he’d spent the last few years of his life had handed me a parking permit earlier in the week.
It was dated May 5.
That day, my sister-in-law had showed up with split pea soup. Dad’s favourite.
We’d all been at his bedside for days.
Hours before he took his last breath a dear friend had shown up with a plate of deviled eggs. Another one of dad’s favourites.
His day had come. 
My face turned to a pout. I took the phone to notify the closest.
Sobbing uncontrollably I emptied my heart in the wake of his spirit.
Dad always knew what to say and when to say it.
He’d crack anyone up. Not everyone got it mind you.
The family enjoyed a meal and a toast tonight.
Our way of celebrating Dad’s day.

Wednesday, 4 May 2011

How Grass Grows


All of a sudden it needs mowing again.
I drive by the park everyday. Some days there are dogs. Other times it’s empty.
Blissful with the backdrop of Victoria’s Inner Harbour.
Time again to mow it.
My, how time flies.
Before you know it the day turns to night. It’s sleep time. Wake-up now. A new day!
Another season comes. A full moon. A birthday. Christmas. A New Year.
Like the moon revolving around the Earth. The sun in the sky.
A child grows up into an adult.
We live.
We die.
And the grass?
My, how the grass grows.

Tuesday, 3 May 2011

Seize the Day!

Yup. Horace expressed it right. Not sure where I first heard it. Seize the Day! Yet today I ponder what’s left to seize?
Instead of celebrating democracy I’m cursing it.
Sure everyone has different points of view. Can’t say I can recall a leader that everyone has been happy with. We all prosper with our own points of view.
But in my circle, I’m not the only one.
Got a good chuckle when out for the evening ride. It was an impromptu meet-up. I happened to roll up on a couple gals.
“Where you going?” Glenowyn asked.
“An hour, hour and a half,” I replied.
“Come with us,” she replies.
We’re on our way to Thetis Lake using the multi-use cycling network.
Along the way the conversation soon jets to the aftermath. Kate who was new to me mumbled on that her mother was going to immigrate.
I replied with, "Where from?"
She wants to get out of Canada she replied. Go to New Zealand.
That closed in on a belly laugh for me.
Not the first time I’d heard of folks heading down, down south though.
Whatever have we become?
A Prime Minister with a handshake of a dead fish.
No semblance to life on earth other then the almighty dollar.
Seize the day?
Not a chance.

Monday, 2 May 2011

Vote Barf


Never thought I’d see the day.
Not much I can do.
I voted.
Told everyone else to.
It goes against my grain.
To even think what will be.
The future continues.
Ditched efforts to swing against.
Swayed by misjudged moments.
Uncalculated views.
Do you really know?
Where your values are?
Tonight. All if feel.

Is vote barf.